The truth about being rich

Most of us dream about becoming rich. We want to be able to afford every desire we have. i.e. wine and dine at fancy restaurants, buy that Prada bag, that pair of Ferragamo shoes and that dream house and that dream car.

But not many people get there. Somehow we are always just one step behind the Joneses (or the Queks, or the Khoos for that matter). Somehow, the next pay rise didn’t really improve our quality of life as we expected it to. Why is that so?

The truth is being rich is a relative game. You are only rich when those around you are poorer than you are.

To illustrate, 10 yrs ago if you drove a nice Civic or Sunny, you would be considered rich and successful. You are on your way to attain the 5Cs. Good job, keep it up. But today, Ah Beng drives a Civic too and you suddenly realize you are driving an Ah Beng car. And so, you must upgrade to get back into the inner circle of the rich and successful.

This is means that the standard to become rich has gone up.

In other words to reach the status of being rich is a moving target. You need to run faster, work harder, work smarter than everyone else, so that you can earn more money and join the premier league. To become rich is a rat-race and it only gets harder.

10yrs ago, if you earned $4000 a mth you will be in the top decile of Singaporean earners. Today you need to earn $7000. Even if we consider inflation is 5% per year (which is a lot, long-term average is only 3%), $4000 10yrs ago should be equivalent to only $6000 today. But if you earned $4000 in 1997 and your earnings power improved by 50% to $6000 today, you would have become poorer because you have been relegated to the 2nd decile. (You would have beaten inflation but bcos you didn’t beat the other Singaporeans who are now earning $7000, you actually become poorer.)

So that’s why we cannot stop running on that treadmill and the worse thing is, the speed keeps increasing as you run!

Now let’s suppose that we actually made it. We have managed to earn truckloads of money and kept our status in the premier league, year in year out. No sweat. In the statistics our income grew from $7000 to $20000 per mth. Woopee!

But if you think about it, we have just raised the bar for everyone else. So now Ah Beng who was earning $7000 and has only managed to up his income to $10000 has been relegated to 2nd decile. He can afford the Prada bag and the Ferragamo shoes. But now the new standard is Jimmy Choo. So too bad for Ah Beng.

This means that by becoming rich, you have just made a lot of people poorer. And that's why a lot of rich pple give back to the society (at least those who have a conscience.) Bcos they inadvertently contribute to more poor pple in the society.

Is there a solution to this rat-race? I am afraid the answer lies in the realm of enlightenment, inner peace, knowing what is enough for yourself and that kind of philosophical stuff. Not something for the aspiring rich and famous reading this blog perhaps.